Why should Mr. Grey and Anastasia have all the fun? If you're looking to spice up your bedroom play with a little bondage and role-playing, you'll need to stock your erotic toolkit first. Here, fresh from Eve's Garden, are 5 must-have sex toys for stepping into the dark, thrilling world of BDSM with your partner.

 
The official Beginner's Bondage Kit!


Heighten sensations with a sensual blindfold. By keeping your lover in the dark, familiar touches spark arousal, surprise and heated anticipation. As you move freely around your partner, they are left guessing what's coming next. Force your partner to listen, feel and imagine your next move. Will it be a light spanking? A tender touch? The blindfold keeps it a delicious secret.

Deliver a little pain and a lot of pleasure with a premium leather flogger! Trail the tips along sensitive "thick" areas like the thighs and shoulders and build into more substantial hits slowly. It's important to listen for feedback from your partner to ensure that you're only hurting them in a good way.

Note: Floggers should not be used for hard hits on the lower back or "wrapped around" the rib cage or torso on a swing.


Fifty Shades Feather Tickler

 

Warm up or cool down excited skin with the gentle, silky kiss of a naughty feather tickler. The barely-there sensations will help you drive one another absolutely wild with lust, and allow the "person on top" to feel completely in control of their willing, loving captive.
 

Creatively punish your lover with a spanking paddle across their backside. Make them list their "transgressions" and require them to count out their punishment spanks out loud. You may be surprised at how hard it is to keep your concentration as you both get turned on by the experience.

 



JIMMYJANE's Afterglow Massage Oil Candle


Finish your BDSM scene with a slow, sensual massage, using a massage oil candle that heats up and melts into massage oil. Pour the warm oil onto your partner and tantalize with heat, before melting their tension away with massage.

Playing with BDSM roleplaying and bondage sex toys is fun, but some BDSM experts advise that it requires a little "aftercare" or time spent reconnecting in a nurturing or romantic way. This helps you regain balance within relationship and can also be a soothing, natural way to lead up to lovemaking after all that kinky fun!

 

 



About the Author

Kim Ibricevic was hired in 1997 by Dell Williams. She has been running the Eve's Garden NYC location for over 10 years and has been featured in CNN, Marie Claire and The Oprah Magazine. Kim's expertise has helped thousands of Eve's Garden customers to become more sexually healthy and fulfilled.